This quote won’t be perfect because I heard Beth Moore say it on a video that went to the Bible Study I did. 

Here’s my memory of the quote:

“A while back I was just so upset about something someone had done to me.  I kept telling God all about it.  He invites me to do that when I’ve been hurt, but I just kept it up.  Finally, I sensed Him say to my heart:

‘Child, what would you have me do with them?’

My heart finally softened, and I said to Him, ‘Show them the same mercy and grace You’ve shown me.'”